With the holidays upon us, we will be surround by family. This is an opportune time to discuss with loved ones how you want your end of life care handled.
A great website (www.engagewithgrace.org) encourages people to talk with their loved ones about the five questions of end of life care and encourages you to get your appropriate health care documents in place. In Michigan, everyone needs at least a Patient Advocate Designation for health care decisions and possibly a living will. A Michigan estate planning lawyer can help your prepare your health care directives.
There was an article about the site in the Boston Globe.
Here is an except:
-Christopher J. Berry, Esq.When Rosaria Vandenberg lay unconscious in the hospital, a malignant brain tumor stealing her life, her brother decided to overrule doctors' advice and bring her home to die. He believed, but wasn't sure, that this was what she would have wanted. The truth is, when she was conscious, her family had never asked.
Back at home, Vandenberg's 2-year-old daughter, who had been afraid to touch her mother in the hospital, snuggled next to her in bed. Rosaria opened her eyes, the first time in a week, and took in the sight. She died the next night at home.
